What To Wear On A First Date

Show off your tasteful style and attire to impress with these practical tips

First dates are often a nerve-wracking experience, and for good reason. What if the person you spent time with while dating became the person you spent your time with for the rest of your life, forever? This setup puts a lot of pressure on first dates for all the right reasons. After all, it’s probably a story you’ll tell again and again with every new person you meet on your travels as a couple.


There are many reasons why you should care about what you wear on a first date, some of which, while obvious, are truer than ever. Dressing appropriately sets the right tone because it shows your respect for your date and lets them know you invest their time. If this is your first date after a divorce or breakup, remember that you deserve a chance to rewrite your history.

Choosing the right outfit will give you the confidence to show up for your date with the right attitude and behavior. For example, when we wear a suit, we don’t just choose to wear a two-piece suit; No, we choose to put our best selves forward and say, "We deserve to be happy." We go higher and generally show the world that we are a mature and worthy person.

Today, we're going to give you some simple style rules for most first-date advice to help you set the right tone.

Consider The Location Of The Date

Before you can get ready for your special occasion, you must know where the date will be held. Are you having a casual date night at the movies, or are you going to a fancy restaurant? Be sure to dress appropriately for the date location. Not only will this show your date that you have a strong sense of style, but it will also let them know that you're serious about them. Dressing appropriately for a date may also lead to a second date.

Dress Appropriately, But Don’t Spend Too Much

Once you've decided on a date location, you can take the time to put together an outfit. Usually, on a first date, everyone wants to dress to impress. Now, this doesn't mean you have to go out and spend money on a new outfit. Instead, choose high-quality pieces you already have in your wardrobe to coordinate the perfect fit. Only go out and buy new stuff when necessary. Be sure to wear clothes that enhance your features and fit well. Don't wear clothes that are too tight or they may become uncomfortable. Choose pieces like a smart jacket, slim straight-leg pants, or a polo shirt.

Pay Attention To Details And Don’t Be Afraid Of Accessories

You need to make sure your garment is in pristine condition. Iron out any wrinkles, use a lint roller to remove excess hair and lint, and make sure the fly isn't flaring. If you want to feel a little fresher, spritz on your favorite cologne, but don't overdo it. Add a stylish necklace, watch, or bracelet to harmonize your look. Remember, the little things matter, and your date will notice it.

Be Yourself

The worst thing you can do on a first date is not be yourself. This also applies to your style. Never wear anything that doesn't reflect your style. It's understandable to want to impress the person you're dating, but to do that you have to stay true to yourself. You want to wear clothes, not have clothes wear you.

Fashion Notes

To make it easier for you to style your date night outfits, here are some stylish outfits you should consider.

Do’s

Dress for the weather: You don’t want to wear a cashmere sweater to a dinner date when it’s 80 degrees outside. Check the weather conditions ahead of time to determine what is best to wear on your date.
Dress with Confidence: You want to leave a lasting impression on your date, and what better way to show it than with clothing?
Make sure your shoe game is on point: Remember, shoes can make or break an outfit. You need to choose the perfect pair of shoes that both fit and are comfortable. Show your date that you care about what's on your feet.

Don’ts

Wear athleisure: No hoodies or sweatshirts. You want your date to know that you are serious about them and that you work hard to look smart.
Wear uncomfortable clothes: Make sure you wear clothes that fit you and don’t wear clothes that don’t fit you.
Brightly colored, printed jacket: You want your date to focus more on you than what you're wearing.